What women want?

Well I was going through this blog on chivalry and chauvinism and the writeress ( I am inventing a word )after leading a confused soul through a mess of even convoluted arguments finally ends the argument putting the onus on men to understand –What Women want ?..
Well we had movies (new sources of karmic gyan), many courses (for the academically oriented).. Dialogues and discussions (for community leaders and their followers) on it... Philosophers, historians and who knows even archeologist will try to put together their life understanding in answering -what women want? Aint an easy question by any standards except for women and their ever changing expected replies…I have once tried this with 5 of my friends who are girls and their consolidated answer (since each had a different requirement) can answer what can be expected from men since Mills and Boons published their first romantic novel...Well one thing I understand from amongst the simpler ones in the fairer sex is that women want to be in control of their lives... they want to be appreciated for the multitude of roles they perform with aplomb..They want to be judged for what they are as individuals rather than the societal fairer sex...I think I fairly agree with all of these and I think this reflection makes me much wiser and puts in a better position to understand and appreciate the women in my life…